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My Pelotonia 2011 Ride for Cancer – Columbus to Athens – 102 Miles!

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Success… and Disappointment

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Well, I only went 102 miles, not 180.

I fully intended to ride the 80 miles back the next day, but sometimes the spirit is strong and the flesh weak.  On Thursday evening before the Pelotonia 2011 ride I took a fast 20-mile ride.  Unfortunately I wrenched my back somehow, and thought this was going to be a major problem during the ride on Saturday.  It wasn’t the back that gave out ultimately, it was the legs.

I rode the first 42 miles with my business partner, Colin Parks and his friend, Jeff.  They are regular cyclists and have done triathlons.  And they are young.  Big mistake!

From Columbus to Groveport we averaged over 22 miles per hour.  After a very quick drink and some trail mix, we hit the road for the next 20 miles to Amanda.  Still fairly flat, but little hills starting.  On the flats I drafted behind Colin and Jeff, and was still able to keep up with them for the first 10 miles.  I then fell a little behind, and arrived at the next water stop a few minutes behind them, still averaging over 20 miles per hour.  It was a gorgeous morning, riding through the mist and cool temperatures, at that speed for a guy who is not a regular cyclist was truly invigorating.

Colin and Jeff took off, and I stayed to rest and have some more trail mix.  I never saw them again.  Oh to be that young and strong again!

I filled up my water bottle and took off for what I knew would be the hardest part of the trip… the next 30 miles through the beautiful Hocking Hills of Ohio.  The very rough but cool, tree covered trail wound through some of the most scenic parts of Ohio along the Hocking River, gently rolling over the small hills of Hocking County.  All along the way, even in this remote part of the State, people were cheering us on along the road, motivating us to push on as we all rode to raise money for the cure of cancer.

At Clear Creek Metro Park rest stop (mile 54) I got a refreshment from the Gator Aid stand, a couple of Tylenol from the Human Aid kiosk, and a tightening of my handle bars from the Bike Aid folks.  I drank some water, and set out for the first of three major torturous climbs over the next 30 miles.  From here begin the most difficult 15 miles of the Pelotonia route.  This portion of the route includes the Starner Hill climb, which is 2.2 miles long with a total elevation gain of 374 feet, most of it in the last mile.  The route reaches its peak at 1,159 feet above sea level approximately 6 miles before the Logan Rest Stop at mile 69.  As in last year, this hill was murder.  There is no shame in getting off one’s bike and walk.  I did that.  It is quite humbling, however to see some cute young girl, weighing no more than 110 pounds PEDDLE up the hill past an old guy!  The reward of this climb was a great downhill run for about three miles during which I reached speeds of over 40 miles per hour without even peddling!  I thought to myself, “The exhilaration far outweighs the risk of knowing the serious consequences of coming off the bike at that speed!”

The second brutal hill was not as steep, but longer.  On this hill my legs gave out.

I was standing on the pedals to get more leverage, and was doing just fine.  Suddenly I was overcome by such severe cramping in my inner thigh that I had to stop.  My quads were frozen and I was in agony.  Didn’t even feel my back pain anymore.  I finally calmed the twitching muscles down, and was able to lift my left leg high enough to dismount.  I sat there on the side of the road massaging my quads, and was joined by at least five other riders with the same problem.  It was very hot, and very humid.  I have not realized how much I have been perspiring while riding, but now the sweat just poured out of every pore in my body.  I knew I was getting severely dehydrated, but I was almost out of water and still 10 miles from the next stop.  I got back on my bike and peddled for less than a mile, and had to repeat the process: standing there in agony until the spasms subside, dismount, massage, walk a few hundred yards, remount…  This happened multiple times and cost me more than an hour, totally ruining the excellent average speed I had up to that point.

I arrived at the Logan Rest stop at mile 70.  I was hot, exhausted, dehydrated.  I downed almost a liter of Gatorade and followed that with as much water.  I ate some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, my first food since the trail mix at Amanda.  I got a couple more Tylenol from the first aid folks because my left knee was now aching.  After some rest I set off for the last 32 miles.  Some lovely rolling hills, with one more grueling hill where my legs gave out four more times, costing me more valuable time, followed by an exhilarating two-mile downhill coasting and on to the Hocking College rest stop, the last before the beautiful (and flat) Hocking trail into Athens for the last 12 miles.

I arrived at the finish line very tired but totally pumped for having completed the first 102 miles of the 180-mile ride in spite of my severe cramping.  And wondering how I would be able to ride another 80 miles the next day.

I was quite relieved when Katie convinced me that I should pack my bike and ride home with her instead.  I am disappointed that I did not get to do the next day’s ride, but feel that the 102-mile ride from Columbus to Athens is probably as much as a guy at 62 should do.  I am grateful for that!

I wore my son, Thomas’ biking helmet.  Tommy, his wife Yuki and our grandson, Ryusei now live in Saigon, South Vietnam.  I miss them and wish he could have done the ride with me.

I dedicated the ride to my father; Willie Grové, Sr. My dad had his 62nd. birthday in 1979 in the hospital and died shortly after of complications from a lifetime of undetected hypertension.  I am grateful for modern medicine which prevents people from dying from that disease.

Someday, hopefully soon, we will be saying the same about cancer.

Only 5 days left to PELOTONIA 2011

From Columbus TO ATHENS AND BACK – 180 MILES!

And this year I am better prepared!

MY RIDER PROFILE: Click on the link to the left to visit my Rider Profile on the 2011 Pelotonia website.

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Why I committed to ride 180 miles and raise $4,000 for cancer research

One week before the Pelotonia last year I enrolled to ride (see my post below).  I notified my friends via email and offered them an opportunity to invest in this worthwhile cause.  I was stunned and humbled that in addition to my own contribution almost $5,000 was contributed by a large number of folks for cancer research – in less than one week!  I honestly did not expect any contributions, and was moved by the terrific support in such a short time.

When I ride this year – Columbus to Athens and back – 180 miles, it will be just a few days short of my dad’s birthday on September 2.  My dad passed away in 1979 in South Africa, a few days after his 62nd birthday.  He suffered from hypertension, and in those days, untreated, it killed people – just like so many types of cancer still do today.  When I ride this year, it will be just about a month before MY 62nd birthday.  Riding in the Pelotonia has become a personal fitness goal for me; I did not dream last year that I would get so completely “hooked” on riding.  So, I ride to help raise awareness of another killer – cancer, and in the process also help raise money for research.

And I ride for my own health and fitness.

This year I am dedicating my ride to my father, Willie Grové Sr..  I miss my dad.  I am sure he is smiling on me.  I know he is very proud that I, at his age, am actively taking care of myself, and making a small contribution to others.

100% of every donation will fund essential research at The Ohio State University Comprehensive Cancer Center – James Cancer Hospital and Solove Research Institute.  Think of this as a donation not to me, or Pelotonia, but directly to The James. Please consider supporting my effort and this great cause. Here is the link to my rider profile:  http://www.mypelotonia.org/riders_profile.jsp?MemberID=90458

MY 2010 PELOTONIA POST

I am riding in the Pelotonia from Columbus to Athens, Ohio on Saturday.

I am brand new to this.  I have not owned a road bike since I was 20, and I will be 61 in September.  As part of my own commitment to remain fit, I decided in June that I would ride to Athens in honor of the people who work so hard to beat cancer, as well as the ones who are fighting it now.  I have not had much practice since I came off my bike the day I bought it eight weeks ago that day in June, and only this week (mid-August) have been able to use my injured left leg effectively to ride.

I thought I would not ride this year, but rather postpone it to next year.  Then I thought of all the people who are diagnosed with cancer.  They do not have time to practice for that, and yet they don’t give up.  So why should I not ride?

I am not asking for a donation – only that if my friends feel moved by this worthwhile cause, that they may want to take this opportunity to make a small investment.

I am just so gratified that I will be able to do this ride.

Think of this as a donation not to me, or Pelotonia, but directly to The James. Please consider supporting my effort and this great cause.

Goodbye San Francisco, Chao Saigon

It is not so far removed in my memory – that terrible time in our history when people did not WANT to go to Vietnam.

Last Monday, May 2, 2011, I sobbed as I watched Thomas, Yuki and Ryusei, with their lives packed into several suitcases, walk off into the San Francisco airport to board a plane for the long journey to Saigon.  I realized how my parents and sisters must have felt when I left South Africa in 1978 to come live in America.  “I’ll be back in two years,” I said.  I did not realize that their hearts must have broken.  But now, 33 years later, I do.  Because mine did.  But I also know that my family would never have denied me the opportunity I found here in the USA.  The blessings of Katie, our kids, and her family, and the business opportunities.  And that is what I wish Thomas, as he takes on a major new career challenge with a game development studio for a French company, Gameloft in Saigon.  What a wonderful adventure for a young family.  And what an opportunity for young Ryusei and Yuki and Thomas to experience and learn from another culture, another language, another part of the world.

Thomas’ Blog, Goodbye San Francisco, Chao Saigon posted on April 2, 2011, exactly one month before leaving, speaks volumes – not only of the work that needed to be done, but the organization he and Yuki developed to make the move possible in such a short time.  Katie and I were privileged to help with this, and I truly feel having gone through this with them was another excellent bonding opportunity for all of us.

And then there is Ryusei, the most wonderful two-year-old.  I could not resist posting this video of their last week in San Francisco.

By the way, there may be those purists who might think that I, and by inference, Thomas, miss-spelled the Italian greeting Chiao.  Wikipedia confirms that the Vietnamese version of the ancient Venetian word for “Hello” or “Goodbye” is actually spelled CHAO in Vietnamese, and that there was considerable exchanges between Marco Polo of the Republic of Venice and Vietnam in the 13th Century.  Not that I doubted Tommy’s language skills, of course…

 

 
 
 
 
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My Hobie Cat in Belize

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February 2010

The Joy of a Hobie Cat – Building my boat

Here is a short film of my new Hobie Cat on  YouTube Logo Cropped.   I shipped this boat from San Diego where I purchased it as a kit from Fast Lane Sailing.  It arrived in San Pedro in February 2010 in many pieces, and Vic Tharp, my brother-in-law and I assembled it with the help of Gato and several other friendly Belizeans.

This boat was easy to build and is an absolute thrill to sail!

 

Hobie in Belize

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February 2011

Sailing my Hobie Cat getaway in Belize

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Sailing My Hobie Cat Getaway in Belize

There are few things as exhilarating as sailing faster than the wind on a small catamaran, feeling the salt spray in your face.  Out of 16 days at our vacation home on Ambergris Caye, Belize, I sailed 14 days with Katie’s brother, Vic Tharp, and with our friends Doug Yunker and Dan Jackson, and sometimes joined by Katie, Dan’s wife Michael, and Doug’s wife, Jennie.  Some days we sailed clear south of the island, and then turned North to sail almost as far as one could to the Northern end of Ambergris Caye.  The wind was terrific every day. The weather indescribable.  And the company wonderful.
It took a few days to work out the kinks, and the short video I posted illustrate some of that early on, with me coming close to flipping the boat a few times.  What it does not show is the day I rammed the dock at full speed, having lost steerage of the boat after the main sheet cleat would not uncleat, and the rudders kicked up in the shallow water.  Unfortunately my brother-in-law, Vic, was not prepared for this.  The impact threw him against the mast and produced a very impressive gash on his forehead.

The amazing material from which this boat’s hulls are constructed proved everything the manufacturer claims.  If this was a fiberglass boat we would have had serious damage.  Other than a slight deviation of the starboard hull’s bow to the right , there was not a scratch on this impressive Rotomolded Polyethylene Plastic material.  Or like the first time I took Dan Jackson out.  We sailed in an amazingly strong wind, probably 22 knots, and had serious trouble turning the boat with the reef looming dangerously close directly ahead.  After several tries we managed to get her jibed, just in time to avoid the reef.

Very soon after the turn, we hung up on a shallow part of the reef, the boat coming to a screeching halt on the rocks.  I contemplated getting off to push, but realized that the sharp rocks in the shallow water, almost a thousand yards from the beach, would shred my bare feet.  So I hauled in the main sheet, and she took off like a rocket, scraping over the rocks.  No sooner had we freed her of the rocks or a very strong gust lifted the port hull out of the water.  I tried to uncleat the main sheet, but the cleat just would not let go.  Dan lost his grip and slid down the 45 degree angled trampoline.  The combination of the wind force and the balance of a grown man on the leeward side of the boat was a recipe for  disaster.  Dan says the last thing I yelled as we went over was “AWESOME!”

With the boat now on it’s side, the main mast float preventing the mast from “turteling” (going down below the boat, which makes righting her very difficult), the trampoline acted as a sail, and the strong wind blew the boat  downwind faster than we could swim.  Dan made his way to the mast top, hand-over-hand hauling himself by the luff end of the main sail.  He swam the mast head into the wind, and I climbed on the floating pontoon, taking hold of the righting line which is attached underneath the trampoline.  I threw my weight out to get the sail and mast out of the water to allow the wind to assist me in righting the boat.  She came up so fast that she flipped again.  I managed to hold on to the boat as the trampoline acted as a sail again, blowing her downwind at an amazing speed.  Dan quickly realized that he could not possibly catch up, and within minutes was 50 or 60 yards from the boat.  Fortunately there is a lot of boat traffic, and two boats stopped by to assist.  Unfortunately I do not remember the name of the boat that rescued Dan.  Two VERY NICE guys in a Captain Morgan’s boat lassoed the mast head, moved her back upwind, allowing me to repeat the process to right her.  With tremendous speed she came up, but this time I was ready, and threw my weight towards the windward hull to preventing her from going over again.  I quickly set both the main and jib to prevent her from sailing onto the reef, and was able to jibe regardless of the strong wind.  The water was so rough that Dan’s boat was unable to come alongside to allow him to board the cat, so I yelled  over the howling wind for them to deposit him on our dock.  Having an incredible sail in this strong wind, I sailed her back to the dock where Dan was already waiting for me.  I docked her and threw the line to Dan to tie her down.  All-in-all a great adventure and a good learning experience.

When I assembled the Hobie in February 2010 after shipping it from San Diego to San Pedro in many pieces, I thought I remembered well how my Hobie 16 was rigged in South Africa more than 35 years ago.  So I did not consult the manual for the setup of the main and jib sheets and tackle.  I was quite unhappy with the performance of these vital parts of the boat, particularly the fact that I had constant trouble uncleating the main sheet, and that the jib was quite difficult to pull in very tight in a heavy wind.  My friend Dan studied this setup, and concluded that there was something wrong with the way I had it set up.  We downloaded the manual, and after studying the rigging, reconfigured the main block and sheet setup, and redirected the Jib sheets according to the manual.  Amazing how well it now works.  My advice: Read the manual!

With the new boat rigging I quickly became much more comfortable with handling her, and did multiple trips for long distances up and down the Ambergris Caye coast.  With a North-Easterly wind we were able to do miles and miles without tacking, all the time in wonderment at how fast this boat is, and how well she handles.

Like Dan said… how blessed I am to have Hobie in my backyard!

A Weekend in Corumbau, Bahia, Brazil

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The sands of time keep on blowing, but good friendships endure and indeed thrive, regardless of the distance over oceans or years.

Such is the friendship Katie and I have with Miguel and Mariana D’Almeida, our dear friends from Rio de Janeiro since 1976.  Mariana and Miguel lived in Rio at that time.  Katie had left South Africa to return to the USA in December of 1976, and I followed her there to propose to her.  She was staying with the D’Almeidas, and they were indeed the first to know that she accepted.  Over the years we remained good friends.  We visited each other in Lisbon and Columbus, we vacationed together in London, England, we frequently enjoy their company in New York City, and had the privilege in January 2011 to visit their beautiful vacation property in Corumbau, Bahia, Brazil.

Katie and I joined our friends, Richard and Lydia Wallace for a wonderful weekend at Miguel and Mariana’s vacation home. We were fortunate to meet Michael, Richard’s business associate, and also to spend the weekend and become friends with Pedro and Teresa Clemente, friends of Mariana and Miguel from Portugal. A bonus of the weekend was to meet and become friends with Clement and Adriana, a couple from Rio de Janeiro who own a large estate just down the beach from Miguel and Mariana.

We had the time of our life!

Photo Albums

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Brazil Corumbau 2011 01

Brazil Sao Paolo 2011 01

Movie

I also put together a short video of our adventure.

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Tanzania Safari

Tanzania Safari – March 2008

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Hans Brekke at Lake Manyara National Park

An African Safari is a once-in-a-lifetime experience for most people.  Katie and I, along with our kids, have visited the exotic game reserves of South Africa, Botswana and Zimbabwe frequently, and love that part of the world.  We have led several Safaris ourselves and have had the priviledge of seeing our American friends fall in love with Africa during our Southern Discovery trips to Southern Africa.  (Please see my archive of our previous New Trekker Adventure Safaris)

An African Safari allows one to explore the astonishing diversity of landscapes, abundant wildlife and fascinating cultures of this continent.  After climbing Kilimanjaro in March, 2008, the climbers were joined by our spouses, and Katie and I were pleased to go on a Safari with  Tommy and Yuki Grové, Hans and Natalie Brekke, Mike and Barb Cantlin, Brian and Julie Nocco, and Al and Kathy Wilson.

Dust Bath in Lake Manyara National Park

We visited the great national parks of Northern Tanzania: Lake Manyara, Serengeti, and Ngorongoro Crater, as well as the Oldovai Gorge where Leakey first discovered Lucy.  The vast open plains of the Serengeti with the greatest diversification and largerst concentration of wildlife in the world and the annual migration was an unforgettable sight.  The giraffe and eleohant herds in Lake Manyare spectacular.  And the other-worldly, almost Jurrasic nature of the Ngorongoro Crater a life-long memory.

While we are partial to the intimacy and beauty of a Southern Africa safari, this experience in the Serengeti and the rest of Tanzania is simply unfogettable.  I might add that Hoopoe Safaris, arranged by Tusker Trail did an excellent job.

Tanzania Safari (Slideshow)

African Sunset

African Sunset

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Tanzania Safari (Original Photos)

Serengeti Romance

Serengeti Romance

There are four albums.  Click on the image above and look for the following albums in the gallery:

Safari Willie Canon 1

Safari Willie Canon 2

Safari Mike

Safari Julie

Safari Yuki

Safari Willie and Katie Olympus

Christmas 2010 – New York

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Christmas in New York – 2010

Christmas 2010 had to have been one of the most wonderful Christmases we as a family has experienced.  Katie and I spent almost two weeks in New York at our apartment.  We were joined by Tommy and Yuki with our dear grandson, Ryusei. and Katie’s 90-year-old mother, Grace Tharp, came in from Florida on Thursday before Christmas, and was going to stay until Sunday after Christmas.  Of course, we had the big snow storm which wreaked havoc on the airline schedules, and she was unable to get out until Friday, almost a week later. What a bonus it was to have her for those extra days!  I was fortunate to stay until the Monday after New Year’s, and Tommy, Yuki and Ryusei did not have to return to San Francisco until Tuesday.  And with Dan and Jessica here, the picture was complete and perfect.

On Christmas Eve afternoon Katie babysat while Tommy, Yuki, Grandma Grace and I went to see  “A Little Night Music” which is the show Jessica was doing on Broadway, with Bernedette Peters and Elaine Stritch.  What a fantastic show!  Then we all met at Jessica and Dan’s apartment for a lovely evening of fun and wine and cheese.

On Christmas day we had presents and then a lovely Christmas lunch at our apartment.  In the evening all of us went to see the Radio City Christmas Spectacular at Radio City Music Hall.  The show was, well, spectacular.  After the show we were treated to a back-stage tour by one of Jessica’s friends, and Ryusei got to pet the camels.  We then went to see the Rockefeller Center Christmas tree, had dinner, and sent Jessica off to do her Christmas evening performance of her  show.

The next day, Sunday, we went up to Jessica and Dan’s neigborhood for brunch at Popovers, and walked back in what turned out to be a major snow storm pushing Mother’s wheel  chair and Ryusei’s stroller.  The next couple of days we enjoyed New York in a way that was very special for all of us. Granny Scoot (Grace) was such a trooper.  We bundled her up and took her EVERYWHERE in that 4×4 wheelchair we had!  Snow, sidewalks covered in up to two feet in places… nothing deterred her.  And how much fun we had with Ryusei in his first snow!

Katie and I went to see la Fanciulla del West, one of my favorite Puccini operas at the Metropolitan Opera.  On Monday I left, Tommy, Yuki, Dan and Jessica went to see Mozart’s The Magic Flute at the Met.

Thank you so much to my kids and most of all to Katie for making this such a wonderful Christmas.

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Kilimanjaro! A Profound Experience (Movie)

This was a pinnacle adventure in my life – a profound experience. After seven days of incredible beauty, breathtaking vistas, almost impossible hiking and climbing through five different climatic zones, I was standing on top of the highest peak in Africa, the largest free-standing mountain in the world. It gave me an unimaginable feeling of awe and accomplishment. It will take me a long time to come down from this mountaintop!

This is the story of the dangers, the challenges and the triumphs of a group of ten friends, led by the able guides of Tusker Trail on a nine day adventure to the top of Africa and back down.

I will live the rest of my life with the dream of Kilimanjaro fulfilled.

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Thomas and Yuki - about 1,000 feet from Uhuru Peak, the summit of Kilimanjaro

Thomas and Yuki – about 1,000 feet from Uhuru Peak, the summit of Kilimanjaro

This adventure has been chronicled in a coffee-table book entitled Kilimanjaro! available online.  Just click on the book cover below for a full preview of the book on-line.

Cover to my book "Kilimanjaro!"

Cover to my book “Kilimanjaro!”

 

A Bit of Family History on Christmas Day, 2010

Tommy’s First Six Months

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December 25, 2010

Christmas Day

Katie and I are spending a week in New York at our apartment (Christmas 2010).  We are so blessed to have Tommy, Yuki and Ryusei here.  We had a lovely Christmas day with our family.  Katie’s mother, Grace Tharp flew in from Florida.  Yesterday, on Christmas Eve afternoon, Katie babysat while Tommy, Yuki, Grandma Grace and I went to see  “A Little Night Music” which is the show Jessica is currently doing on Broadway .   What a fantastic show!  Then we all met at Jessica and Dan’s apartment for a lovely evening of fun and wine.

Today, after a lovely Christmas lunch at our apartment, all of us went to see the Radio City Christmas Spectacular at Radio City Music Hall, then went to see the Rockefeller Center Christmas tree, had dinner, and sent Jessica off to do her Christmas evening performance of the show.

This Christmas I have been particularly homesick for South Africa and my family there.  I put together a little slide show of photos I had on my computer from 1979 – scanned from our old photo albums.  There are pictures of Tommy’s very first days, of our American family and my Mom and Dad who came to America for Tommy’s baptism on my Dad’s birthday, September 2, 1979.  My father was quite ill, having suffered TIA’s for some time, even though he was only 62.  They made it to the USA okay, and we had a wonderful celebration of Tommy’s baptism with family and friends.  That evening my Dad was taken to Riverside hospital after another attack.  We made it to our apartment in Birmingham, Michigan the next day, and spent a lovely two weeks with my Mom and Dad, and the new grandson.  This was an important trip for my Dad, since Tommy was named after him, as was I.  He said to someone in South Africa just before they came to the States for the Christening, “I can now die in peace, since my grandson was born.  Once I have seen him, I can die”.

My father became very ill, but made it back to South Africa.  Two weeks later we were in South Africa, because the doctors advised us to come.  A few days after we arrived he passed away.

This Christmas I missed my South African family deeply, and particularly my Mom and Dad.  I am sure it is because of the wonderful time we are having with our kids, and with Ryusei, our grandson who reminds us so much of Tommy at that age.

It’s A Wonderful Life

Kathie Lee Gifford, John McDaniel, Dan Cooney

 

On Friday December 3, 2010 Katie and I had a most WONDERFUL experience.

Wonderful Life PosterOur son-in-law (that is Jessica’s husband), Dan Cooney has been working on a new Christmas Musical for his theatre in Dexter, Michigan, The Encore Musical Theatre Company, and we got to see the World Premier on Friday night.

Dan gained the support of the good people in this Ann Arbor, MI area community a couple of years ago, and raised the money to convert an old warehouse into a lovely, cosy theatre.  They are concluding their second very successful year, having performed highly acclaimed productions of musicals such as Evita, Oklahoma!, The Sound of Music, Little Shop of Horrors, Sweeny Todd, Guys and Dolls, Annie, Spelling Bee, Jesus Crist Superstar, Club Morocco.

Having had the good fortune to obtain the talent of two celebrities such as Kathie Lee Gifford and John McDaniel was a major boost.  Dan has performed with Kathy Lee in shows before, and has also been in shows music-directed by John.  Dan is currently in a new production of Bonnie and Clyde, The Musical, with music direction by John.

So, last Friday Katie and I had the privilege of driving to Dexter from Columbus to “stand in” for Dan at the World Premiere of It’s A Wonderful Life.

But first, we were to pick up Kathie Lee, her assistant, Christine, John McDaniel, and Kathie’s husband, the football legend, Frank Gifford at the Willow Run Airport.  We were so impressed with these wonderful people.  Frank, a football Hall of Famer and a legend, could not have been nicer.  And Kathtie was an absolute hoot.  John, so imminently brilliant and talented, and gentle.

Katie filmed the curtain speeches… Dan asked me to say a few words.  At intermission Kathie asked if anyone was filming the production.  I just happened to have my small video camera!

The footage is what one gets from filming in a theatre without a tripod and with hot stage lights, but at least it is a record of the second act.  I was also able to film both Kathie and John’s comments.

Curtain Speech

It’s A Wonderful Life Act II

Talk-back with Kathie Lee Gifford and John McDaniel

Kathie Lee With the Cast

Kathie Lee and Hoda With the Scoop – Monday December 6, 2010

Kathie Lee Gifford reports on the world premiere of “It’s a Wonderful Life”